Life through my eyes......
Wednesday, July 11, 2007
Blog Friends...how many of us have them
Each week I take the time to think about what I'm thankful for....things that are big and small..that might not seem important in the moment that they are occuring but in the long run I find that they make life what it is....wonderful.
When I first started blogging I didn't know that it would turn into all of this...friends who I converse with via email, friends I've met in person. I use the term friend just as it means..because I do consider you each of you just that....you know some things about me that even my friends who see me on a daily basis don't know....you give me advice and many of you tell it like it is even when I dont' wanna hear it...you might not have seen me cry but I'm sure you can tell when I've done just that.....so today this is for you....
MizzJJ.....You know as soon as I can get to Canada I'm there. Doesn't Mocha live there too...I miss her LOL..ok so this is suppose to be about you...I love reading about life where you live and the men that you encounter...you say what you want and if others dont like it...OH WELL
BK Diva...What can I say about you, other than you know that I honestly know that if I call you, you will listen there aren't many folks who I feel that way about and dont chill with them on the regular...but you best believe that after you've fed me I ain't going no where. You are a wonderful mother, friend and woman....I'm glad I got the opportunity to meet you and that your in my circle :)
Black Butterfly...You made me want to come to ATL and have drinks with you LOL..then again maybe I'm just an alchie hahaha....I wish you all the best on this new journey your embarking on your gonna be a great teacher....make sure you get some rest though and take time to enjoy those dirty south men lol (not dirty literally)
Black Mambaa...I think I have been reading you for a while..I love how you black out people's faces with smiley faces LOL that cracks me up. It's wonderful that your there for your sister...many people dont understand that folks do change...plus I was kinda digging the snack on your page but I do love the new change lol...you should kick butt at your job and ask questions later LOL
BluJewel...I consider you my blog sister and I'm forever thankful for advice that you give through your words even when I dont know that it's for me....we have yet to meet in person but I'm sure when we do...I will be cracking up and probably crying LOL...of course not in a bad way just cause I'm emotional....I love reading your poetry and about your mini me....she's so blessed to have you as a mommie
ChocolateThoughts....Another blogger I've met in person, where have you been, then again I do talk to you on google so I'm fine. Once you calm down from traveling we need to do dinner and catch up...we can hunt for men...of course not for me LOL..for you it's all about you :) I miss you, you need to update more often..or I will come find you!!
CoolAC...You haven't updated in a while but it's funny that you were down in my neck of the woods alot (757) and you also lived up here. Through your blog I got to read another one As Berry grows...she is soooo cute....come back!! LOL
Deep....Aight another one of my sisters that I will have to meet up with before the year is out, cause we def get along like we have known each other all our lives. Please dont marry Bubba LOL..sike let me stop. Thank you for just being you, how you have opened up your secret passion to us and let us get into a peek of the you.....your wonderful, your powerful and if anyone tells you different let me know and I will meet them in a dark alley..or find a crackhead to do it...you're gonna me a great mommie :)
Dynasty....where the heck are you!! I need to know more about Hershey and the move and the new job......I miss you.....plus I'm tired of going to your page and looking at those peaches LOL and not getting to read anything new!!
Fallen...You haven't updated either lately and I'm sure its for good reason, I love reading your poetry and about your everyday life....Miss ya bunches
Freaky...The name says it all lol...you bring out the freak in me..sike nah. You are seriously hilarious..if you had a show I would watch it with my clothes on and no I wont send you a picture. You put it out there and if others dont like it they can not come to freaktopia lol
GhettoEconomics...Better known as Paula D, I love reading about work, your various thoughts and it cracks me up...the picture of the baby shower cake had me dying at work....I must say I enjoy your life even though of course I'm not living it lol
God'sChild...Your name perked my curiosity so I had to stop by...I have loved reading your blog....I will admit that I dont stop by as often as I should but when I do I always catch up.
Golden....Another blog sister who occassionally sends me emails but is always in my thoughts and prayers....we seem so much alike and as a matter of face I promise we need to do lunch in the city one weekday....I'm sure our offices wont miss us (yea right) Just when I dont think I can I stop by your page and I read those words...Stay Up and I know things will get better...thank you
MindSpace...someone who has experiences my home town and knows just how peace lies there so when I talk about going back there you know just what I mean....he was a loser for what he did but hey enough about that LOL....I love your fashion commentary although I've noticed that you haven't done it in awhile. GOOD JOB on the gym visits you make me want to drag myself back out there.
GTL...I've met you and you dont blog too much anymore then again I dont go to your page much but you are TOOOOO funny....I love hanging out with you guys, you're doing big things and I wish you all the best.
HopeintheUnseen.....I love your hair, I love how you think, I love how you've let her go but you still love her.....you are too funny. I think your in Bmore for the summer maybe we can meet up at the harbor and do lunch :)
Nikki...one of the first blogs I read, your drew me in with just being real...about your life, the men you encounter and you just have a way with words....I mean you really need to write a book!!
Januari..I love your name as a matter of fact this is a warning that I might steal it for my little girl..I'm giving you and your mom credit now (or the individual that gave you that name lol)....I cracked up at the title of your blog one day....I be quiet but when he leave I be talkin again lol...and the random thoughts are too funny
Jus....My big sis, someone who I have to read each day....even if you dont post I read the one that's up becuase it might be what I need to hear that day. Thank you for setting me straight, thank you for telling me how I'm being spoiled, thank you for your words becuase through what you are dealing with you help others....you will probably never know how much your appreciated
JustHerWriting...Sometimes what you write I'm like dang she is deep LOL. We aren't perfect but because of some of your things that you write I know that it's ok cause a lesson comes out of it all....you put me on to alot of things and for that I thank you :)
KoolBreeze...I love your tribe they are soo cute.. and the food on your page makes me hungry and as soon as I have a kid you know I'm sending you an email so that you can make me something :)
LaBella....You remind me so much of me that it's crazy LOL I think we were twins in another life...you and your hun remind me of me and my Hun LOL it's funny that we both call them Hun although youve know begun to call him D lol. I love how you talk about folks in traffic cause they are a hot mess...and the little girls in your class are seriously blessed to have someone in their life like you....they need someone they can look upto other than the people they see on a daily basis....You are gonna be a wonderful Mrs. Military :) I would go so far as to say when are the little militarys coming but I hate when folks as me that so I'll digress LOL
Luvin...I need pics at least background pics LOL. I know that you are soo happy right now that smiling has become second nature and nothing can stop you not even friends who have drama or family members that are probably feeling a tad jealous because of your blessings.....come back soon but I know your enjoying just being happy right now :)
MisUnderstood...A fellow Libra....I stop by occassionally you stop by occassionally and I will admit I need to make it up there to visit...so we can hit the streets together LOL
MrMack...where are you...that's all I can say, you went to the Chi and didn't post again I hope you survived it lol
OrganizedNoise....sometimes I go down the list and I hit your spot up other times days go by and I forget to read everyone, but despite that you always send me an IM and for that I thank you. We keep missing one another but we'll hang out one day when your in town or I decide to visit your neck of the woods...
Sarccastik....how is lil sarccastik, the misses and life in the A....where have you been man lol....
you use to crack me up with your stories about the lil one and the stuff she would say...I miss that :( plus you made married life sound aight lol
Slish...you went private and I can't read you anymore..what's up with that LOL if anyone talks to him tell him to holler at Honey I miss reading his stories.....
Missy...HOMIE!!! I have to come to the Bean again so we can get free drinks from unsuspecting men at the bar....you have to come visit again so we can party hard!!! How are you..what are you doing.....email me NOW LOL
NSane...I am horrible at coming by the blog now..I know sad..I'm on my way right after I write the rest of this post....I love how you keep it real, your raw emotion and how you feel about things that you've gone through..I wish you the best in everything.....
Pam...you and Caun are too cute and so is your mini-me, I love how you love him and you love life...I look forward to spending the rest of my life with Hun and enjoying it as much as you are enjoying it. You keep on ticking, you enjoy life and I will admit I love the pics LOL
Princess....You are just that, I will admit I have yet to buy a book but it's coming LOL....Your blog keeps me interested and even when I forget to stop by when I do what you've written makes me want to catch myself up
Roycee....You never stop and that I can admire. You always have something going on and how you love your Dad so much is wonderful.... many women aren't as blessed as you and I to have men as our fathers who have taught up what real love, unconditional love is.....you stay on the go...you love loving and that's not bad..even when things dont go how you want them to you still come out knowing that a lesson has been learned.
LadyNay...what can I say about you....your another one of my blog sisters that I have yet to meet....your stories about Pooka crack me up....I wish we lived closer to one another or that gas wasn't so expensive..better yet I wish I had a driver that could drive me to visit you so we could hang out LOL....you only live one state away so maybe if I save for a month for gas I can come visit LOL. You inspire me with your stories about being in class cause soon I'm gonna be on that path again..you get stressed out but you never talk about quitting and that is commendable.
SanginDiva....This girl can SANNNNGGG LOL. I love reading about your tours, seeing your pictures and hearing about your life....I'm sure your busy which is why you havent' updated LOL....hopefully you will come to this neck of the woods so I can hear you sing face to face....
SheDoesn'tCare....Ok I dont call you that, I have your real name and your number so I guess it's safe to say that I know you LOL....your in my circle and I love hanging out with you and GTL. You guys are too funny everytime me and roomie come through we have a blast!! We def need to hang out more...Bmore isn't that far I'm just lazy LOL (hmm I should hire a driver..then again that requires funds that I dont have lol) Keep doing it big girl..ya'll makin moves..T&J promotions is taking the world by storm
CI...Ok so your townhouse is FLYYYY and I'm mad I couldn't come to your party cause I would have come if I could...but I am def gonna have to come down that way and me you and Jus are gonna sip on martinis and laugh at passerbyers LOL....I love how you use to talk about your roomie and her antics which were sooo NASTY but folks like her make living with them interesting and gross but hey great stories come out of it LOL....now that you dont have to see her you wont have anything to talk about..or will you lol
Kween...HEY GIRLLLL!! Ms. Diva is what I call you everytime I see you cause you always killin em lol....you doing it big sista keep doing what you doing...you dont update too often so I just have to rely on how your doing when I see you lol..or do I just not stop by enough lol
Drama....I love reading your blog and your stories..you keep me entertained. I'm glad you and He decided to make things happen..it's clear that you have love for him too bad I wont get to hear about the bouncer anymore then again maybe he'll do something soooooo good that things will change ahhh well lol
SouthernGirl...One of the first blogs I started reading I dont know how I found you but for some odd reason when my boss was talking about going to Arkansas I was about to tell her to hit you up....umm but she's a older white lady going there on business then I thought about me hopping in her luggage so we could hang out but that might give her a heart attack. Your randomness, your thought out posts all keep me hanging on...O is tooo cute. Your opinions and your bluntness some folks might find harse but hey that's how I am so I can dig it (did I just say dig wow lol)
StreamofConscienceness....I stop by once in a while and I know that's horrible but I have so many favorites. I enjoy reading about your thoughts and feelings about EVERYTHING....cause sometimes I wonder what you wonder and I think no one else thinks that way then again I know someone else does I'm just glad that I can read about someone who does
Tantrum...you came, you saw.... you disappeared. I will admit that I miss reading your blog hopefully you're out there in the dark reading and what not...perhaps you'll come back and if you do look me up :)
Tenacious....we live probably like 10 min from each other yet we've never hung out...SAD!! So I say we head to H20 on a hot summer night get some drinks and laugh at the men who find it necessary to dance with us by poking us with their you know whats LOL. Nah but for real your randomness cracks me up man and it's funny cause I be like dang I can hear her saying that and I've never heard your voice lol....if you had a show I'd watch it lol...it would probably be on BET during the after dark hours but I'd stay up to watch it LOL..matter fact you should audition for Real World..that would be too funny LOL
Mistress....WOMAN!! What can I say about you, you went private so if you're gonna click on her link I must warn you that she's no longer there....but I get to enjoy her all the same WOOHOOO. I love how you enjoy the sexuality of being a woman and you dont care who thinks heads or tails about it. You have your opinions and you dont care if folks give a rats booty about it...you're gonna do you...others need to be like that..me included but I'm happy to say that I'm getting there. Plus you make AZ seem so dang on pretty even when its 130 degrees outside LOL....
G....what can I say about you....you're words always get me...they make me want to cry sometimes they make me want to laugh and they make me want to love someone so much that I lose myself in them....I enjoy reading your words, your thoughts...and you. You get me everytime I stop by even if you haven't updated....thank you for your words and letting me read them
MsBehaving....I crack up and how you think about work and the fact that you dont wear open toe shoes that makes me laugh and when you talked about the woman who use to work with you but tried to take over..man if I could have seen a pic of your face while she was on the phone I know it would have mirrored what I would have looked like...your gonna be a fly nanna...your children are soooo blessed
Stilts...you went private and I still get to read you but I keep forgetting that you've gone private until I look in my email box LOL...I love how you just say what you want even it means mentioning crotch and smelly socks all the time LOL...I'm stopping by to catch up right after this.
NSearch..I always forget to link you and I stop by when I remember but congrats on the pending wedding you know I want pics LOL....I love your Hot mess posts you make me laugh..thank you
KrateDigga..Also known as Anonymous..thank you for checkin up on me everyonce in a while...keeping doing what your doing....thank you for your music and if I'm ever in your urea LOL..you have to show me around :)
Sooo I know this was long but I wanted to get everyone. Too bad we all can't get together and have a big blog event lol....Some days I get to read all of you other days I only get to read a few of you but that doesn't mean that you aren't in my thoughts...thank you for allowing me to enter your lives through your words and thoughts...thank you for giving me your advice, your jokes and your thoughts...thank you for sharing a piece of you with me